By recognizing that women who are actually attracted to other women is not an anomaly, that I am not the only lesbian or gay woman in my state, city, or school. We really are everywhere. I socialize with the same confidence that straight people have, you know, how they assume everyone is straight? I just don’t assume anyone is straight, isn’t that what we fight for, for heterosexuality to no longer to be the standard? You’d be surprised how many “wlw” exist around you.
If you’d feel safer engaging with women who you definitely know aren’t straight, make a tinder or okcupid and meet through there.
